Whether you're
aware of it or not, you make all the choices that affect your life. The choices
that appear to be made by others are a result of your having passed
responsibility for your life over to the social collective. As you grew up, you
took on the values of your society, and built a life based on a convenient
social framework.
Remember: even as
we complain about a lack of freedom at the hands of our social order, we're
making the daily choice to buy into that very scheme. The idea of an ideal life
has become twisted into a paint-by-numbers picture of what society tells us we
should be and have. A nice house; a nice car; nice clothes; a lucrative job. These are the trappings of a life
lived through someone else's values, and the term 'trappings' is a very
appropriate one, for our need to have them traps us; requires our on-going
subordination to the social order.
Because we'd
rather ignore the fact that the responsibility for our dissatisfaction is our
own, we need to look elsewhere. And so we've created a convenient scapegoat in
the intangible entity called 'THE MAN'. The socially accepted term affords
legitimacy to the concept itself, as well as a welcome sense that we're in the
same boat as many others who are suffering similar 'injustices'.
So what's the
alternative? What ELSE is there? Certainly, when we were growing up, there
seemed to be no alternative to the social scheme we saw plotted carefully and
effectively around us. We learned to think through the values of the social
collective, and not for ourselves. A
person who thinks for themselves is not subject to social values, and is
therefore the last to define themselves as victims of the social order. They
are free to carve out a life that they prefer.
The issue is very
much one of learning to think for yourself, to recognise the choices you have,
and to make them yourself using your own logic. Part of the journey to
achieving this very probably requires the abandonment of many cherished aspects
of a socially defined life. It's not easy, but it's honest. And honesty is key,
because people across the globe have a view of life that's daily becoming more
transparent, and it's getting harder to hide the convenient excuses we use to
avoid taking responsibility for ourselves.
More on this
subject, and other issues regarding thinking for yourself, in the book
'THE WILLING
MISFIT' by Derek Pearson, available here for free online:
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/137307
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